6# Life's little instructions - Be proud of yourself & love who you are

Never tell yourself you are not good enough! This is a terrible affirmation! How can you ever be truly happy when you keep telling yourself these terrible things? Would you tell your best friend "Stupid, you're not good enough anyways, why would your crush take you?" or "Yeah that wasn't okay you're an idiot" Well if you do you are a terrible friend, but I suppose you wouldn't ;) You would tell your friend things like "Don't worry, be yourself, if he doesn't like you the way you are, he doesn't deserve you anyway" & "You made a mistake, but life goes on, I love you still" and THIS is the way you should treat yourself! :) Why? Because you always & will always hang around with yourself, you'll never get rid of who you are. So why making war with who you are when it's so much easier to get along & befriend with the person you are? Being mean to yourself just causes trouble which is exactly what happens when you say these kind of things. "I'm too fat" "I'm not good enough" or my favourite "I hate myself" Why would you hate on yourself? The next time you did something good tell yourself "Well done, I'm proud of myself" or if you walk past a mirror tell yourself what looks good on you instead of hating on something that looks bad. Smile when you look into the mirror & send yourself a kiss. You are great just the way you are! Stop trying to be someone else. Be YOU & love YOURSELF :)